Meet a Transgender Girlfriend!

Meet a transgender girlfriend! I'm Amber Lynn, author of the free T-Girl Dating Guide -- download your copy instantly and learn how to romance transsexuals, shemales and t-girls of all types.Meet a Transgender Girlfriend – by Amber Lynn, T-Girl Dating Coach

Do you want to know how to meet Transgender Girls? Do you find your efforts are often misunderstood by the T-Girls you contact? Perhaps you joined a transgender dating site but can’t get a reply. No need to worry. I have a unique understanding of what makes t-girls and their admirers tick. Often, it is just a matter of semantics or fine-tuning the approach that will make the difference with your transgender romantic efforts.

I’ve helped guys overcome their trans dating apprehension and shown them how to become successful in their romantic efforts. It isn’t difficult, but there are some things you absolutely must know. Otherwise, you risk outright rejection and you may not even realize why. All that is about to change!

Would you like to be the guy every T-Girl wants to be with? Do you want to meet a very special T-Girl and develop a long-term relationship? I’m here to help you succeed even if you have failed before. It comes down to supply and demand. There are many more admirers than t-girls, so you need to take just a few steps to make sure you stand above the other transgender admirers.

Many men with all the best intentions have been turned away just because they said the wrong thing. There are a few things you need to know before you jump headfirst into trying to find, attract and seduce T-Girls. Knowing these little tidbits may make the difference between success and failure!

NEW! Transgender Girlfriends Chat & Social Network


Join thousands of transgender community members and friends. Browse profiles, look through photos and join the live chat. Transgender chat and social networking is a great way to explore your place in the transgender community. Come join us in a safe, welcoming environment and meet new friends! We have chat rooms designed specifically for the transgender community and trans support rooms so you can join us for a comfortable chat experience among people who understand you.


If you’re an admirer or want to engage in naughty chat we have you covered too. Just sign up and look in the chat rooms list for adult-themed rooms just for you! has created a chat room and social networking platform with something for everyone. We don’t have a lot of chat rules but we need a few to be sure the chat flows smoothly. Please read through the chat rules and make sure you follow them. Join the conversations and get to know everyone. There are some great transgender folks and community friends who will be happy to chat with you. Click here to sign in or join transgender chat – it’s always free!

Transgender Girlfriends Chat – You Must Agree To The Rules Stated Below

Transgender Chat Rules: The transgender chat room is frequently monitored by moderators who may or may not identify themselves as staff members. You must abide by their instructions at all times. We try not to be overbearing but some simple rules are needed to ensure a sense of safety and a free flow of live chat.

1. You must be at least 18 years of age per the site rules.
2. Name-calling, harassment, racism, bigotry, and general disrespect towards other chatters is not permitted.
3. Do not publicly or privately post any personally identifying information or private conversations.
4. Conversations involving politics and religion are allowed only in the Politics and Religion & Spirituality rooms, respectively.
5. Arguing with chat moderators is not permitted.
6. Please block members who cause problems or with whom you have personal issues.
7. Do not post Craigslist style ads in the lobbies. (eg. 24/looking for phone or cam fun. etc.) Use topic rooms for these kinds of chat requests.
8. Do not spam or flood the room.
9. Cybering in group/public chat is only allowed in the adult-themed rooms.

My trans photo galleries

I have uploaded so many photo sets that you can’t see them all in the drop-down menu. You can click the link to view links to all of my trans photo galleries.

Transgender dating. Men who aren't attracted to transgender women. Are they transphobic?

Are they transphobic?

From a Facebook discussion

No, of course not. They are just missing out.   We all have our own preferences when it comes to sexual attraction. That’s fine and it’s normal. You can still be a trans ally even if you’re not attracted to trans women. You may be asking, what brought this on?

Well, a right-wing publication recently ran a highly biased article asking whether those who are not attracted to transgender people [implying cisgender, hetro] are transphobic. They were making the claim that the trans community (they believe we are a huge conspiracy) would have you believe you are transphobic if you aren’t attracted to trans people. The reality is that life is never quite so simple. As humans, our attraction to certain genders and types is hardwired. We don’t seem to have much control over who we’re attracted to. Regardless of whether we are attracted to certain people or not, we don’t have to be a bigoted asshole about it. We do have control over that. 


There is no one size fits all approach to romancing T-Girls. Don’t worry, I’m going to give you all the insider secrets to make you irresistible to most of the T-Girls you will meet.

Download my free t-girl dating guide!My free T-Girl dating course is now available. I created this as a guide to meeting and romancing T-Girls. I’ll tell you where to meet T-Girls both online and offline, how to make your approach and opening lines, the correct terminology to use and how to sweep your special T-Girl off her feet.

The Dating Guide is now available in PDF for download or online reading as a PDF. Just click the image or link to view. It’s all absolutely free and I’ll share my personal thoughts, insights into the T-Girl world.

If you don’t mind, I’d love to hear your comments. You can post a message in comments on this site or visit me on social media by following the links in the sidebar.

T-Girl Dating Guide: Comments from Readers

“Amber, just so you know ….. I’ve been sending fellas to your site for some time now. It’s kinda like, check this out BEFORE we go out. 🙂 … I am what I call myself a high self-esteem crossdresser. Once I got that part figured out my dates got better. But yes, your site is a wealth of info for them and us. Now I don’t tell them to f off as quick. lol, I send some of them your link and see if we can get on the same page together.” ~ Dana D (Facebook Friend)

“Hello Amber. Yes I did receive the guide and it was very helpful. It helped me understand the terms used a lot better. It seemed to be a lot of common sense as far as how to have a conversation with a special girl. I am not looking for a man nor do i want a man so it was really nice to know that the way i talk and treat a woman normally is what is expected. Thank you for taking the time to compile a guide like that for guys like me. I had been in the admirer stage for a long time and am now ready to pursue my first experience so it was very beneficial to me. Now is the hard part I am finding out, meeting the right girl for me. So thank you again and wish me luck. I look forward to reading your future emails.” ~ Ray

“I have downloaded the dating guide, and it’s great! I consider myself to be a smart and respectful guy, but you have enlightened me on so many things. Some of the thoughts and problems gals face I wouldn’t have ever thought about. I really appreciate someone with so much insight sharing it with everyone. You are really great for putting all this info out. Sorry if I sound like I am gushing, but you really are owed a ton of gratitude for all the work you put in. Also I cannot wait to see some new pictures!” ~ Danny H. (Facebook Friend)

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T-Girls are special! We generally adore our femininity and love the attention we get from male admirers. The problem is that so many guys don’t realize there are different types of t-girls and we all have our different personalities, needs and desires. Consider the fact that under the umbrella term “transgender,” there are those who identify as crossdressers, pre-op & post-op transsexuals, transvestites, shemales, drag queens, transgendered and intersexed. Like the general public, some are strictly heterosexual while others are bisexual or homosexual. The problem for gentlemen admirers (and I know you’re all gentlemen…. right?) is that they often don’t tailor their approach to fit the t-girl.

Interview with Caramel’s T-Girls

I was interviewed by my new friend Caramel from Caramel’s T-Girls. She asked some great questions. You can read the entire interview with Caramel at her website.

Meet More Local Trans Friends!

Take the time to spoil yourself. You deserve a break from the everyday grind just as much as anyone else. Find some new friends, chat with new people and maybe find a love interest.

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  1. Raquel some T-girls are interested in CDs (cross dressers) just the same as we all have different likes & dislikes its just finding the 1 or more that are. Good luck

  2. Hi Amber Lynn
    thanks for the messages you sent me regards downloading.
    I just wanted to say a little about myself. I am a male but i wish i was a girl. I do like cross dressing and i like to think i look good when dressed. I would love to meet a T-Girl who is as attractive as you are (I think you are stunning) but i have never done this before but I am excited. Even though I like to dress up would a T-Girl still be interested in someone like me? I hope they would be as I would love to meet a T-Girl and i promise I would not disappoint any one. Keep up the good work.
    Love and best wishes
    Raquel xx

  3. I would have put the question in a forum on ftg or another but having major technical difficulties with some sites. If I had to log in here I think I wouldnt be able to.

  4. I have a question that maybe someone can answer, will see. No use searching it as I would only be more confused. Is there a difference between a TS & TG in terms of how women see themselves?
    Also does TS & TG mean the same thing?

  5. Thats ok amber there millions if not billions of porn related items easily accessible via the net.
    I was reading about pre & post op the other day connie in 1 of the few articles I managed to find, there was some information relating to ur condition. You the best thing ? Is that it hasnt stopped you from wanting to do things which is awesome 🙂
    Guys can u all please read the pdf, scour the internet for information & do the research, a TS or TV or even CD wont come knocking on your door 🙂 Ive known a few in the past & well they were m2f TS simply means they no exactly what most guys want & how they think.
    I admit I havent had the time to read the pdf yet but I did some research on various subjects regarding all the T’s. Do ya homework 🙂

  6. Hi Connie;
    I have read your post.
    I am an Asian man, 55+years Young!. I am Vegan and love all beings.
    If you or others t-girls think I will be a good friend, please contact me:
    Thank You

  7. I think your amazing and I’m finding your guide great reading. I hope that all works out well after the reading is done, 🙂 Thank you Amber.

  8. Hi iam 29 yrs old i live in pittsburgh iam handicap not paralyzed and most of my life i have had very strong feeling twords t-girls but have not been able to find one.i want to find someone that will see for my heart and not just the chair. my dream is to feel the warm embrace of a t-girl just once in my life i would treat like a princess and make love to her like no one ever has looking for a relationship if anyone can help me find someone i would be beyond greatful

  9. hi sexy i just saw your interview in wall i love to contact you if you can …thnks hear you soon pls…./////

  10. I am a natural born hermorphradite. I have all female organs internally but no vagina. I ended up with a non functional micro penis the size of an infant’s. But my body and face is otherwise that of a woman’s. My figure is 33B-23-35, I have size 5-1/2 Narrow feet and accordingly small hands. I like making love to both men and women, but prefer men. I know I would like making love to a pre-op transsexual as I love a woman’s body except for that one lacking feature. I really enjoy it when I am told how sweet, cute, precious or petite I am. I suppose I would also really like to party with a small group of both men and women. I really enjoy giving oral to both. In reciprocation, I have a clitoris internally located about an inch above the micro penis. Properly done, I can have almost continuous orgasms for up to an hour or more. I also get orgasms when giving oral to men. Giving oral to women, it’s just about giving them pleasure, but do enjoy the taste, especially during that special time. And of course, I enjoy supporting everyone i transition. We all need to stick together. I am looking for the love of my life.

  11. Hi my Fiancée an I are seeking a TGirl fr fun an friendship. Possible longterm relationship I have in the past across the country frm here she Has never at all but we are both at somewhat of a loss around Boise Idaho as to even where to meet the lil hottie of our dreams?

  12. Thank you so much for the copy of your book. While I was already a gentleman, you have given me a lot to think about. I’m glad you are offering to be a coach because I have a lot of questions !
    I think you are a very sweet person, and I hope you don’t take offense but you are also lovely looking – what people in my neck of the woods would say, “You’re easy on the eyes.”

  13. hi im a first timer i got the hots for ts bad. will u teach me prop way to address y’all and how to start a conversation with y’all. just the basics, im a fast learner. please its been ten or 12 years ive fantasized and think about all the time anything goes sexualy giving and getting i want full ts experience.

  14. I’m an 18 yr. old cross dresser ( I don’t know the term for it) and am looking for a tgirl near Brunswick, Maine. I have a girlfriend but she doesn’t understand my cross dressing. I’m looking for someone who understands me.

  15. Hello ! I adore transexuals, shemales, transgender (here in Bulgaria we have just one word so i dont know in english the difference sorry for that). I dont just see shemales as sex objects but as Godesses. Ive always wanted to meet shemales but here in my country the only thing that they care about is money and nothing else just the god damn money. Ive always wanted to understand, to know such ppl. To learn more for their life for themselves. I’m open minded and i can talk fo anything i dont have any inhibitions or any hidden thoughts. 🙂 Hope its not to sad what i wrote but its just i want so much to meet such wonderful ppl 🙂 I adore u T-Girls !

  16. Dearest Amber Lynn,

    Thank’s for your friendship and support. I recently submitted a private health loan request at my bank (JP Morgan-Chase Manhattan) to pay for the cost of surgical feminization (facial, silicone breast implants, body modification & sexual reassignment hormones) for myself to be paid back over the next 5 years. I will hear back from them at the end of the month. I need this loan to be myself. I am the same as you are Amber Lynn, A T-girl (transgender or TG) who identifies herself as a female.Can’t wait for that loan to come through. 🙂


    Bess Lacey Bleu’


  17. I’ve been Scared….and Hurt…..for SO Long.
    I’ve “wanted” to be A Sissy Girl…..with SOMEONE who was: Kind, Understanding, Sweet and “pleasing to look at” (AS a Beautiful “Female”).
    Just do not know Who (or Where) I can turn to.

  18. hi all im a kiwi guy from new zealand i love transexuals im down to earth and fun please write me

  19. hey amber like to know if we r different cose we like girls like u not into ggs or guys so we have wonderd whether girls as beautiful as u would b interested in us

  20. I think this is a fantastic idea and I hope people will take the time to pay attention to what you’re doing here. Love the person, not their parts. What matters most to me is what is in a person’s heart, not what’s in their pants.
    Keep up the fantastic work Amber.

    Huggs and Kisses

  21. I’m sure you get this alot
    You are incredibly Beautiful
    Do you get told this just as often?
    You are equally Intelligent as you are Beautiful

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