Transgender Girlfriends

Meet a transgender girlfriend! I'm Amber Lynn, author of the free T-Girl Dating Guide -- download your copy instantly and learn how to romance transsexuals, shemales and t-girls of all types.Meet Transgender Girlfriends – by Amber Lynn, T-Girl Dating Coach

Do you want to know how to meet Transgender Girls? Do you find your efforts are often misunderstood by the T-Girls you contact? Perhaps you joined a transgender dating site but can’t get a reply. No need to worry. I have a unique understanding of what makes t-girls and their admirers tick. Often, it is just a matter of semantics or fine-tuning the approach that will make the difference with your transgender romantic efforts.

I’ve helped guys overcome their trans dating apprehension and shown them how to become successful in their romantic efforts. It isn’t difficult, but there are some things you absolutely must know. Otherwise, you risk outright rejection and you may not even realize why. All that is about to change!

Would you like to be the guy every T-Girl wants to be with? Do you want to meet a very special T-Girl and develop a long-term relationship? I’m here to help you succeed even if you have failed before. It comes down to supply and demand. There are many more admirers than t-girls, so you need to take just a few steps to make sure you stand above the other transgender admirers.

Many men with all the best intentions have been turned away just because they said the wrong thing. There are a few things you need to know before you jump headfirst into trying to find, attract and seduce T-Girls. Knowing these little tidbits may make the difference between success and failure!

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Transgender Girlfriends Chat & Social Network


Join thousands of transgender community members and friends. Browse profiles, look through photos and join the live chat. Transgender chat and social networking is a great way to explore your place in the transgender community. Come join us in a safe, welcoming environment and meet new friends! We have chat rooms designed specifically for the transgender community and trans support rooms so you can join us for a comfortable chat experience among people who understand you.


If you’re an admirer or want to engage in naughty chat we have you covered too. Just sign up and look in the chat rooms list for adult-themed rooms just for you! has created a chat room and social networking platform with something for everyone. We don’t have a lot of chat rules but we need a few to be sure the chat flows smoothly. Please read through the chat rules and make sure you follow them. Join the conversations and get to know everyone. There are some great transgender folks and community friends who will be happy to chat with you. Click here to sign in or join transgender chat – it’s always free!

Transgender Girlfriends Chat – You Must Agree To The Rules Stated Below

Transgender Chat Rules: The transgender chat room is frequently monitored by moderators who may or may not identify themselves as staff members. You must abide by their instructions at all times. We try not to be overbearing but some simple rules are needed to ensure a sense of safety and a free flow of live chat.

1. You must be at least 18 years of age per the site rules.
2. Name-calling, harassment, racism, bigotry, and general disrespect towards other chatters is not permitted.
3. Do not publicly or privately post any personally identifying information or private conversations.
4. Conversations involving politics and religion are allowed only in the Politics and Religion & Spirituality rooms, respectively.
5. Arguing with chat moderators is not permitted.
6. Please block members who cause problems or with whom you have personal issues.
7. Do not post Craigslist style ads in the lobbies. (eg. 24/looking for phone or cam fun. etc.) Use topic rooms for these kinds of chat requests.
8. Do not spam or flood the room.
9. Cybering in group/public chat is only allowed in the adult-themed rooms.

My trans photo galleries

I have uploaded so many photo sets that you can’t see them all in the drop-down menu. You can click the link to view links to all of my trans photo galleries.

Transgender dating. Men who aren't attracted to transgender women. Are they transphobic?

Are they transphobic?

From a Facebook discussion

No, of course not. They are just missing out.   We all have our own preferences when it comes to sexual attraction. That’s fine and it’s normal. You can still be a trans ally even if you’re not attracted to trans women. You may be asking, what brought this on?

Well, a right-wing publication recently ran a highly biased article asking whether those who are not attracted to transgender people [implying cisgender, hetro] are transphobic. They were making the claim that the trans community (they believe we are a huge conspiracy) would have you believe you are transphobic if you aren’t attracted to trans people. The reality is that life is never quite so simple. As humans, our attraction to certain genders and types is hardwired. We don’t seem to have much control over who we’re attracted to. Regardless of whether we are attracted to certain people or not, we don’t have to be a bigoted asshole about it. We do have control over that. 


There is no one size fits all approach to romancing T-Girls. Don’t worry, I’m going to give you all the insider secrets to make you irresistible to most of the T-Girls you will meet.

Download my free t-girl dating guide!My free T-Girl dating course is now available. I created this as a guide to meeting and romancing T-Girls. I’ll tell you where to meet T-Girls both online and offline, how to make your approach and opening lines, the correct terminology to use and how to sweep your special T-Girl off her feet.

The Dating Guide is now available in PDF for download or online reading as a PDF. Just click the image or link to view. It’s all absolutely free and I’ll share my personal thoughts, insights into the T-Girl world.

If you don’t mind, I’d love to hear your comments. You can post a message in comments on this site or visit me on social media by following the links in the sidebar.

T-Girl Dating Guide: Comments from Readers

“Amber, just so you know ….. I’ve been sending fellas to your site for some time now. It’s kinda like, check this out BEFORE we go out. 🙂 … I am what I call myself a high self-esteem crossdresser. Once I got that part figured out my dates got better. But yes, your site is a wealth of info for them and us. Now I don’t tell them to f off as quick. lol, I send some of them your link and see if we can get on the same page together.” ~ Dana D (Facebook Friend)

“Hello Amber. Yes I did receive the guide and it was very helpful. It helped me understand the terms used a lot better. It seemed to be a lot of common sense as far as how to have a conversation with a special girl. I am not looking for a man nor do i want a man so it was really nice to know that the way i talk and treat a woman normally is what is expected. Thank you for taking the time to compile a guide like that for guys like me. I had been in the admirer stage for a long time and am now ready to pursue my first experience so it was very beneficial to me. Now is the hard part I am finding out, meeting the right girl for me. So thank you again and wish me luck. I look forward to reading your future emails.” ~ Ray

“I have downloaded the dating guide, and it’s great! I consider myself to be a smart and respectful guy, but you have enlightened me on so many things. Some of the thoughts and problems gals face I wouldn’t have ever thought about. I really appreciate someone with so much insight sharing it with everyone. You are really great for putting all this info out. Sorry if I sound like I am gushing, but you really are owed a ton of gratitude for all the work you put in. Also I cannot wait to see some new pictures!” ~ Danny H. (Facebook Friend)

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T-Girls are special! We generally adore our femininity and love the attention we get from male admirers. The problem is that so many guys don’t realize there are different types of t-girls and we all have our different personalities, needs and desires. Consider the fact that under the umbrella term “transgender,” there are those who identify as crossdressers, pre-op & post-op transsexuals, transvestites, shemales, drag queens, transgendered and intersexed. Like the general public, some are strictly heterosexual while others are bisexual or homosexual. The problem for gentlemen admirers (and I know you’re all gentlemen…. right?) is that they often don’t tailor their approach to fit the t-girl.

Interview with Caramel’s T-Girls

I was interviewed by my new friend Caramel from Caramel’s T-Girls. She asked some great questions. You can read the entire interview with Caramel at her website.

Meet More Local Trans Friends!

Take the time to spoil yourself. You deserve a break from the everyday grind just as much as anyone else. Find some new friends, chat with new people and maybe find a love interest.

188 thoughts on “Home”

  1. Thank you so much for the guide. I am a man with no experience but a craving to meet some tgirls. I will read your words carefully and try to behave correctly.
    Love you


  3. hi my names MICHELLE and i love tgirls to bits,they are the 3rd sex so why cant they have a life like other people,im a crossdresser myself and love it !. i have had better times with tgirls than other girls at times(not putting other girls down) but they are loving and gentle, and wow at times full of fun.

  4. im so exicted to have a friend like you./
    im in love with you.and i would much love to meet.
    lots love kises your lips xoxo

  5. I was just wondering if you would be able to hook me up sometime with a t-girl or crossdresser cause I think that they are so hot and sexy. I am from the Ohio so if you could please help let me know thank you.

  6. Fantastic site, i am a man, and my wife is woman, and we love this way to express everybody`s love, and we congratulate Denmark, for the way they is bringing homo´s to the church.

  7. Amber Lynn you are very beautiful and sexy, I am interested in your sentence is very interesting you, you are too sexy lip kiss greeting …

  8. I met my post op wife in the chat room on the guide, it links from here. Just understand that like any public place your first impression, good manners and kindness will count for a lot. Because of guys trolling for cyber and not following the rules it can take time to earn trust. But this is the internet and one should take some care.

    We have a wide variety of gender designations so you want to take folks as individuals and make no assumptions about their biological histories or intentions. We urge folks who plan full transition to wait for a year after they’re post op before complicating their process with a relationship.

    There are TG specific dating sites on the web that can help narrowing location and interest, but a good one wont be free. And if you’re cheap, you get what you pay for. After that we have club lists on the guide among other resources, but it’s difficult to keep such lists up to date. You can always ask a taxi driver in your area what clubs might be your best bet. You wont shock them and they’ll know. And of course you can always google TG friendly clubs, city, state and country.

  9. Hi i want to know who and what can I do to changes my self my look,body,closths everything about me? I am male but my hart want to be Female and love wearing woman underwear and dresses and it make me feel special and great an good an sexy ….realy want to chang my self in to a woman THAT WHAT I WANT TO BE BEE A BEAUTIFUL LADY ….please can you help me and help my to changes my self and body please please

  10. Hello, every one. I am new here. I just decided to begin ths journey of being a TG. But, I’ve always like ONLY GIRLS. So, do you have any idea how many girls would be interested in a pretty TG?

    Thanks everyone.

  11. Hi Amber: I enjoy watching all of your videos. I find them enlightening and honest. I hope you never tire of making them, and even though a lot of information is just common sense, you remind us if we live by the golden rule, treat others the way we want others to treat us, everything will be fine. I know that you put a lot of effort and time into those projects. I hope that some day I will find someone special like you. You are truly a treasure, beautyful inside and out.


  12. hello everyone im from the wisconsin portage,wi…been looking for tgirls in or around my area but cant seem to find any at at..can any tgirls help…just looking to email correspond at first….exchange numbers after a bit and go from there thanks again….

  13. I don’t know if Amber ever mentions this, but just so you guys know… Calling us “shemales” is a big no-no. If you meet a transgendered woman, you’ll most likely drive her away if you call her a shemale, because it’s rude and has connotations with porn. Just because we are t-girls doesn’t make us porn-stars. I mean, don’t get me wrong, we have the most passion in bed, but… just think about the words you use with us. We think of ourselves as women, so treat us like it 🙂

  14. hi all im looking for a T girl in minnesota i will like to meet some one to have all kinds of good times… i was doing a search and there are some that charge 150.00 for one hr. i dont want that i want some one that can be more than a friend and that doesn’t charge lol…. if some one can help me please let me know….

  15. Amber Lynn is a very beautiful woman. It’s who she was before is not important. Many TS women are beautiful and more sensitive than ordinary women. Therefore, TS Women fascinate me. I myself am straight, but I’d like to create a relationship with a Woman’s TS.

  16. Hi! Amber. I very much grateful eventhough I never met up with any Tgirl, ts, cd and I dont think we have them here in Nigeria but If any one up there wants to a black African guy pls contact this number+234809975270, +2348068322090 or via my Email @

  17. I want to thank you for the service you’ve have provided helping men with your videos and explanations for better understanding. I feel you are doing a great service for all humanity and appreciate all of this effort for this site. I want to thank you again.

  18. hi amber, this is priya from mumbai, india, i wann be a professional shemale, wann act in pron films and earn. plz help me out as i am waiting for it since many time, i do does it in mumbai, but wann be a professional / ful time shemale pron actress. do help me, waiting for you reply.




  20. Some pet peeves!!

    1. Guys who think we are dressed and dolled up 24/7 just waiting to show them!!!

    2. Straight acting masculine guys who have to put on a pair of panties.

    3. Guys not mindful of safe sex and health risks

  21. Amber Lynn is a very beautiful woman. It’s who she was before is not important. Many TS women are beautiful and more sensitive than ordinary women. Therefore, TS Women fascinate me. I myself am straight, but I’d like to create a relationship with a Woman’s TS.

  22. Amber i did got my dating guide thank you very much i was wondering if at some point you can help me to meet some one? im in minnesota
    thanks again

  23. I love your website Amber lynn, it’s so cool! I just want to say thankyou for the free dating guide. I think it will give me a better insight on the type of girls I love the most!
    Have a great holiday season & Best wishes to you!

  24. hi i’m new here and a little shy but i am deffinately interested in what you have to offer. i’m looking forward to hearing from you soon.

  25. Amber,
    I’ve always been very attracted to she males and I think it’s because many have their penis and yet their bodies are so beautiful (womanly). I’m a gay bottom and wish to connect with a top gay she male. I’m married, but I need a she male friend and someone I can talk to and spend time with. I don’t wish to be connected to a she male who is interested in my money. I don’t have much.
    I’m retired.
    Love ya,

  26. I am an actual Hermorphradite. internally all female organs. Externally a micro penis and I lack testicles and a prostate. I am a 33-19-35 figure and wear a 0 or 2 Junior. People describe me as really sweet and cute. But I cannot find men to date i my rural area. If a man comes on to me wanting to date, I can’t break the bad news to him. And on line, none of the men are sincere. They are invariably married and just having a fantasy. And the few that actually do want to meet want me to do the travel and provide the place. That won’t be happening. i sure could use help in dating Amber. So far, nothing has worked.

  27. Hi,

    A down to earth straight Male, dark brown hair, hazel eyes, very real and I do know what I like and what I do not.

    Looking to explore a friendship with a Tgirl in Ohio or Western PA, just fun, doing things together and being real.

    Looking for a mutual friendship for fun and play.


  28. Hi all, my name is Katrina, a crossdresser, I think t-girls and cds should work together because we’re in this together. Men are atracted to me and want to have sex with me all the time. Sometimes sex is painful. I’m afraid to talk to women, and I’m afraid of pain, what can I do about that?

  29. Whats KPT stand for?
    Ive googled it, kpt stands for LoadS of things.
    For a bettet idea it was in a few personal ads.

  30. Had alook at the adult services in general across a broad ramge of things.
    1) a t-girl of some status is charging $500 an hour
    2) the amount of 18-24 year old chicks whos tits are 32DD+ is rediculous
    3) the biggest cup size is a staggeriring 53E however big that is, way over my likes limit, DD’s are great but the above sizes are abit too much, each to there own (there body not mine).
    There much much bigger cup sizes out there in the world thats for sure!

  31. Wondered what intersex meant thanks to the guide I can avoid asking. Guys, especially straight guys google/image search: amor asian tgirl (be completely honest with ur answer, if amor walked past u in the streets how would u re-act “with clothes on”… No doubt this will be removed, had to share it as Im amazed at the attention to detail of amor’s present status.

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